Thursday, May 20, 2010

RIP, Mrs. Stegner

I have frequently rhapsodized about one of my favorite authors, Wallace Stegner. He died in a car accident 16 years ago, and today in the paper I read that his wife had passed away a few days ago. Here is what he said about her:

"She has had no role in my life except to keep me sane, fed, housed, amused, and protected from unwanted telephone calls...also to restrain me from making a horse's ass of myself in public, to force me to attend to books and ideas from which she know I will learn something; also to mend my wound when I am misused by the world, to implant ideas in my head and stir the soil around them, to keep me from falling into a comfortable torpor, to agitate my sleeping hours with problems that I would not otherwise attend to; also to remind me constantly (not by precept but by example) how fortunate I have been to live for fifty-three years with a woman that bright, alert, charming, and supportive."

I'd wager that a glorious reunion was had a few days ago.



2 comments:

Cheryl said...

I loved this Becca,
I hope I am that to my hubby and family!
xoxo

Christy said...

You are Cheryl, and more. You too Becca. I visited a 95 year old lady this week. She lost her husband two months shy of his 100th birthday and in their 74th year of marriage. At that point you just hope for them to go.